Saturday, 7 March 2015
This is quite a weird post for me to write but i thought i had to write it anyway! Now don't get me wrong i have had my share of boyfriends through high school... but my sister came home from school talking about her boyfriend... what am i meant to say?
She only started year 7 in January and now shes talking about boyfriends and sex... shes 12 years old!!
When i was in high school sex didn't cross my mind when i was in years 7-9 and even after that i didn't have sex until i left high school. What's the point in complicating high school even more!
I don't mind my 12 year old sister having a boyfriend but it's the fact shes already talking about doing stuff with him! she's in year 7!! (that's all i can think about!!) I was talking to her and her friend and she was talking about how he came to choir because he 'loves' her... does she even know what love is? now i know everyone says they love their boyfriend in year 7... who didn't?
She keeps asking me how old i was when i first got a boyfriend and she thinks I'm lying to her when i tell her i was 16 but to tell the truth that was my first boyfriend although it wasn't my first proper boyfriend (if that makes sense) that wasn't until i was 18... She used the excuse that dad didn't know when i started dating and now he knows that she is but back then i was in a completely different situation!!
My sister likes to keep things to her self... she doesn't like talking about girly stuff (if you know what i mean) so trying to talk to her about sex is hard! she just sits there and shrugs her shoulders which just annoys me so then i get frustrated and walk off... So how am i meant to talk to her about such a sensitive subject when all she does is shrug it off?
If you guys know how to approach this subject with younger siblings please let me know!! it's so hard to deal with this especially when i didn't have this conversation with anyone when i was younger!
I'm sorry about this kind of rant but i just thought i needed some advice!
Just Another Girl xxx